HERE IS MY HAND IN YOUR HAND, I SHALL NOT SLEEP UNTIL YOU ARE PLEASED.

HERE IS MY HAND IN YOUR HAND, I
SHALL NOT SLEEP UNTIL YOU ARE
PLEASED.
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The Messenger of Allaah (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“If a woman does her five (daily
prayers), fasts her month (Ramadaan),
guards her chastity and obeys her
husband, it will be said to her: Enter
whichever of the gates of Paradise you
want.”
Narrated by Ahmad (1/191).
The Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said:
“Shall I not tell you about your men in
Paradise?” We said: Yes, O Messenger
of Allaah. He said: “The Prophet will be
in Paradise, the Siddeeq will be in
Paradise, the man who visits his brother
who lives far away and visits him only
for the sake of Allaah will be in Paradise.
Shall I not tell you about your women in
Paradise?” We said: Yes, O Messenger
of Allaah. He said: “The loving and
fertile one who, if she gets angry or is
mistreated or her husband gets angry
says,
HERE IS MY HAND IN YOUR HAND, I
SHALL NOT SLEEP UNTIL YOU ARE
PLEASED.
Narrated by al-Tabaraani in al-Mu’jam
al-Awsat (2/206). It was also narrated
from a number of other Sahaabah,
hence it was classed as hasan by al-
Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah (3380)
and in Saheeh al-Targheeb (1942).
And it was narrated from Husayn ibn
Muhsin (may Allaah be pleased with
him) that his paternal aunt went to the
Messenger of Allaah (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him)
concerning some need and he met her
need, then he said: “Do you have a
husband?” She said: Yes. He said: “How
are you with him?” She said: I do what
he tells me, except what is beyond me.
He said: “Look at how you are with him,
for he is your Paradise and your Hell.”
Narrated by Ahmad (4/341). The editors
of al-Musnad said: Its isnaad may be
understood to be hasan. al-Mundhiri
said: A jayyid (good) isnaad. It was
classed as saheeh by al-Haakim in al-
Mustadrak (6/383) and al-Albaani in
Saheeh al-Targheeb (1933).
Al-Manaawi said in Fayd al-Qadeer
(3/60):
i.e., he is the cause of your entering
Paradise if he is pleased with you, and
the cause of your entering Hell if he is
displeased with you. So treat him well
and do not disobey his commands with
regard to that which is not a sin. End
quote.
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah
(may Allaah be pleased with him) that
the Messenger of Allaah (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
“The most perfect of the believers in
faith is the one who is best in attitude,
and the best of you is the one who is
best in attitude towards his womenfolk.”
Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1162);
HERE IS MY HAND IN YOUR HAND, I
SHALL NOT SLEEP UNTIL YOU ARE
PLEASED.
Allahu Akbar!!!.....
~**~ May Allah preserve the love and
happiness between spouses, and fill the
houses of all Muslims with good
companionship and kind treatment.
Ameen!~